JoAnn Deak, Ph.D., is an international speaker, educator, and school psychologist. She lectures frequently, often in tandem with Raising Cain coauthor Michael Thompson. She is a consultant to schools worldwide on issues of brain development, gender equity, and optimal learning environments for boys and girls. Teresa Barker is a veteran journalist and coauthor of numerous books, including Raising Cain, Speaking of Boys, and The Mother-Daughter Book Club. Barker and her family, including two daughters, live in Wilmette, Illinois.
Introduction 1 Chapter 1 The Search for Perspective 9 Chapter 2 The Formative Years: The Layering of Nature, Nuture, and Life Experience 37 Chapter 3 Betwixt and Between: The Preadolescent Years 69 Chapter 4 Everything and Nothing: Sharing the Adolescent Girl's Struggle to Be and Become Herself 103 Chapter 5 Mothers and Daughters: Roots to Grow, Wings to Fly 136 Chapter 6 Fathers and Daughters: Soul Mates, Strangers, and a Delicate Dance 161 Chapter 7 The Galapagos Islands of Girls' Social Development 193 Chapter 8 Aiming to Please: Moving Beyond the "Tyranny of Niceness" 221 Chapter 9 Parents Under Pressure: How to Think Straight When Worry Sets In 243 Chapter 10 Girls in Action: The Magic of Doing 266 Epilogue: Girls in Progress 286
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